Thursday, April 4, 2013

Bullying is Everywhere

     Hey everyone! I would first off like to apologize for not doing a blog in like 1534229374893274.3  million years. I've been super busy :( So I apologize. & the last thing I want to do is drive people away because I know people need this. So once again, I'm very sorry and always keep updated. So now I would like to get to the bottom line,
Bullying is EVRYWHERE.
     We all know that it happens in schools. It happens in offices. It happens at the mall and the grocery store. It can even happen in church, yes, in church. The most cliche thought is that it happens in high school or middle school. Elementary school is now struggling with it and they have no idea what to do. Can we help? Sure, why don't we? Coming together as a whole and fighting against bullying. Remember, be the difference. In jobs there is bullying. Let's say you're job is to call people and tell them what money they do and don't get after an accident. Let's say the accident was their fault so they don't get any money and they don't agree with that. Some people will react rudely and immaturely, calling you every name in the book and then some. You're walking in a grocery store and you a 16 year old with 7 month along-sized stomach. You see the woman in the same aisle as you look her up and down with disappointment. THAT'S BULLYING. Nothing makes you any better than that 16 year old girl. Nothing at all. So what gives you the thought that you have right to act like you stand on higher grounds because I'll tell you what, 
we're all standing on the same ground.
     That man you just yelled and screamed at, he's doing his job for crying out loud. Let him be and don't bully him for your actions. Just because you don't go to church every Sunday doesn't give members of the church the right to treat you less or to talk about you other members of the church. Your relationship with God is your relationship with God, not theirs.
     So all of you being bullied, what do you do? You pull a smile on your face and ask them how their day is going. Show them is doesn't bother you because it shouldn't bother you. Their opinion to you is useless. The only opinion that matters is yours. If you're upset with yourself forgive yourself. We're human so we will all make mistakes. Forgive yourself and make it a goal to not make that mistake again. Learn from your mistake and don't let others bring you down. 
"The people who are trying to bring you down are already below you."
     We're all in this together and you will never be alone. Remember, talk to anyone at all because there is always someone. You contact me at "haleysmith75@gmail.com". I'll always be there and you can count on it.

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